Reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): If however, your attraction was to her femininity and the sex was conventional (or at least as far as possible) in that you played the male role, then no, nothing gay there. If that was the case with you, then you are gay and you should leave transwomen alone. However some men undoubtedly seek out transwomen in order to be dominated and have sex as if they were men, while denying that they are men. A transsexual woman is a woman, so it's hard to see how a man attracted to her could be gay and gay men won't go near transsexual women. Nearly all men who are transattracted identify as straight, although a minority don't. Reader, MacShreach +, writes (18 December 2012): does that make me gay?įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!
I had sex with a transexual, it it really bugging the hell out of me. I had sex with a transexual, does that make me gay? Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!